Comments on: The high cost of not engaging our Disquiet http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/ A place for discussion and questions on articles, news and issues pertaining to navigating the unease in men's lives. Mon, 21 May 2012 17:57:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Engaging the Disquiet » Blog Archive » Working with your Disquiet takes humility http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-1764 Engaging the Disquiet » Blog Archive » Working with your Disquiet takes humility Mon, 28 May 2007 03:28:10 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-1764 [...] Learn how not engaging in your Disquiet not only causes you suffering but is impacting your family, you friends and even society. [...] [...] Learn how not engaging in your Disquiet not only causes you suffering but is impacting your family, you friends and even society. [...]

]]> By: man speech » The high cost of not engaging our Disquiet http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-904 man speech » The high cost of not engaging our Disquiet Sat, 31 Mar 2007 20:42:00 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-904 [...] Original post by dave@thedisquiet.com (Dave Schoof)   [...] [...] Original post by dave@thedisquiet.com (Dave Schoof)   [...]

]]> By: Dave Schoof http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-895 Dave Schoof Sat, 31 Mar 2007 15:21:32 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-895 Yeah - you are right Ellen! The intra personal line is critical in this work. I spend a lot of time and effort helping my clients build this capacity in the coaching. Yeah - you are right Ellen! The intra personal line is critical in this work. I spend a lot of time and effort helping my clients build this capacity in the coaching.

]]> By: Ellen Weber http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-786 Ellen Weber Wed, 28 Mar 2007 15:00:57 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-786 Dave you are really getting at both our choices and our chanllenges in the intrapersonal domain of the human brain. How refreshing - and I love the terms you use to inspire action! Thanks! Dave you are really getting at both our choices and our chanllenges in the intrapersonal domain of the human brain. How refreshing - and I love the terms you use to inspire action! Thanks!

]]> By: Stuart Baker http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-764 Stuart Baker Mon, 26 Mar 2007 09:59:07 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-764 Dave, thanks for putting this out. Camille, thanks for sharing it. It is heartfelt,honest and full of integrity. I think this is crucial! It is lovely, Camille, that you could identify your pains, hopes and wishes while taking responsibility for yourself, and that you had and have the courage to deepen the link between your heart and your dad's. Your respect for yourself and for him shine through. This is inspirational. Bless you. Stuart Baker consciouscooperation.com Dave, thanks for putting this out. Camille, thanks for sharing it. It is heartfelt,honest and full of integrity. I think this is crucial!

It is lovely, Camille, that you could identify your pains, hopes and wishes while taking responsibility for yourself, and that you had and have the courage to deepen the link between your heart and your dad’s.

Your respect for yourself and for him shine through.
This is inspirational.

Bless you.

Stuart Baker
consciouscooperation.com

]]> By: Camille Crawford http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-745 Camille Crawford Sun, 25 Mar 2007 23:26:19 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-745 Thanks Dave.... Just a small morsel of relative love <a href="http://lifeview.blogspot.com/2007/03/tower-foundation.html" rel="nofollow">Tower Foundation</a>. I hope you like it. Camille Thanks Dave….
Just a small morsel of relative love Tower Foundation. I hope you like it.
Camille

]]> By: Lisa http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-744 Lisa Sun, 25 Mar 2007 21:21:38 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-744 This was really moving to read Dave. We are definitely all touched by the impact of Disquiet. This was really moving to read Dave. We are definitely all touched by the impact of Disquiet.

]]> By: Dave Schoof http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-739 Dave Schoof Sun, 25 Mar 2007 19:08:39 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-739 Like ripples in a pond....thanks again for your contribution. This is a good example of the power of the blog. Pls keep writing. You have important things to say! Like ripples in a pond….thanks again for your contribution. This is a good example of the power of the blog. Pls keep writing. You have important things to say!

]]> By: Camille Crawford http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-738 Camille Crawford Sun, 25 Mar 2007 19:01:12 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-738 Dave, I'm honoured that this story has moved you, and may move others. It affirms that a chain of goodness can occur, that started with a single act of genuine courage (somewhere long before I came to adopt it) to step out of the expected and known patterns of behaviour, into our real selves, and continues to ripple on through time, affecting anyone it touches. I'm so glad, and relieved that I am not the island I once thought I was. By your affirmation, I am grateful. Thank you so much, Camille Dave,

I’m honoured that this story has moved you, and may move others. It affirms that a chain of goodness can occur, that started with a single act of genuine courage (somewhere long before I came to adopt it) to step out of the expected and known patterns of behaviour, into our real selves, and continues to ripple on through time, affecting anyone it touches. I’m so glad, and relieved that I am not the island I once thought I was. By your affirmation, I am grateful.
Thank you so much,
Camille

]]> By: Dave Schoof http://www.thedisquiet.com/the-disquiet/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-736 Dave Schoof Sun, 25 Mar 2007 15:58:02 +0000 http://www.thedisquiet.com/discussions/the-high-cost-of-not-engaging-our-disquiet/#comment-736 P.S. Camille wrote this about her dad when he read the letter above: My father cried when he read this letter. I'd never seen my father cry. He hugged me for a long time. He'd never done that either. Afterwards, he folded the letter up, put it in his breast pocket and said "I think I'll keep that." We never talked about it again, but he calls me more often now. He wants to know what I'm doing, to take an interest in my work. He loves me." Thanks Camille for this - may it serve dads out there struggling with their Disquiet. P.S. Camille wrote this about her dad when he read the letter above: My father cried when he read this letter. I’d never seen my father cry. He hugged me for a long time. He’d never done that either. Afterwards, he folded the letter up, put it in his breast pocket and said “I think I’ll keep that.” We never talked about it again, but he calls me more often now. He wants to know what I’m doing, to take an interest in my work. He loves me.”

Thanks Camille for this - may it serve dads out there struggling with their Disquiet.

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